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Steal My Ideas – Porn Done Right


I have often felt that there isn’t enough good porn in the world.

I don’t mean there isn’t enough porn. Sure there is. Just not enough good porn.

I mean porn that respects women… that is enjoyable for women and not just heterosexual men… porn that shows a variety of roles and genders and expressions…

OK, those points have been made by others. They’re still relevant, but have been made. In fact, some companies have gone some way towards remedying the situation. I still think we can go further, but a start has been made.

What I haven’t seen though – and what I’d love to see – is passionately loving porn.

Porn that is so full of love it’s actually healing to watch.

Porn showing two people making love on every level: starting from the physical, but blending together on a soul level and reaching spiritual heights of ecstasy.


Like tantra… except not as a sexy instruction guide as some have done. No, as an artform… as love and spiritual fusion, on display. To enjoy sexually and spiritually at the same time. To join, too, in that loving, as you watch.

And you know, porn should be not just about the acts of genital stimulation. How about sensuality, touches, little kisses all over the body, hugging, rolling around, wrestling, tickles, laughter, then more kisses and a bit of respectful groping, ever so softly, and that delicious feeling as the sexual energy slowly heightens…

Come to that, someone needs to lock two awakened indigos in a room with a videocamera. There is no sex like awakened indigo sex. They just have that… *energy*.

Anyway, I don’t know why we don’t have porn like this in the West. It’s like they’re doing it badly on purpose.

Some of the manga hentai porn from Japan I’ve seen has been interesting to me because it shows actual emotional connection, with the characters given a story and a personality so you can connect with them. It feels much more human.

While this is only a step in the direction of what I’d like to see out of porn, it’s interesting how many people prefer this kind of porn to Western porn because it feels more human. It seems like the Western industry is very disconnected from what its consumers actually want.

I know I’m not the only one that thinks this. Passionate, loving, sensual, emotionally connected, spiritual lovemaking has a market.

What’s more, it’d be unique. You’d be the first of its kind.

Food for thought.